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Such encouragement

March 12, 2012

“The old is gone, the new is come! What You complete is completely done!”

You have those moments on cloud nine that seem so fleeting that you reckon for their return. You can call them what they are, and there are several parts of one’s life that can usher them in: the honeymoon period, the new raise, etc.

This is where I’m at. Things are going well and looking up. Heather and I are moving to a more permanent house, I have a job, I’m being asked for my resume, I just got accepted as a Chaplain in the USAR. The girls are healthy. Everything is going well.

And yet, this the most precarious period of one’s life. The slightest comment from someone can bring the cloud down. The slightest misstep of your own can bring the rain. Because there are critics. And your greatest enemy can be yourself.

It was someone else, someone I don’t really know, on a comment thread I was on in Facebook that I read about myself. I don’t know if it was even meant for me, but I know this person. He’s a critic. So I read it as I read it, while I just sang an amazing song, a song that is always so encouraging, and I was immediately deflated.

Why would I let the critic steal my joy? Why would I let him paint a picture of me that God has been showing me to be false about myself?

Scars of the past year surface, and the wounds can still feel as fresh as I go trough the calendar year. No matter how great things are going, great blessings from my Father, I’m not home yet. Critics abound, and the enemy moves like a lion. I am the chief of all sinners.

And I am reminded where my true joy lies: “I have overcome the world (John 16:33)”. No matter how high my cloud is, there is nothing that can truly satisfy and bring peace outside of Christ. Critics will come, but I have a comfort beyond my comprehension. If all I have is Christ, than what has the critic stolen but fleeting confidence?

Quotable Fridays: à Kempis on learning à Kempis

March 9, 2012

“Of what use is it to discourse learnedly on the Trinity if you lack humility and therefore displease the Trinity? Lofty words do not make a man just or holy; but a good life makes him dear to God. I would rather feel contrition than be able to define it. If you know the whole Bible by heart, and all the teachings of the philosophers, how would this help you without the grace and love of God?”

Thomas à Kempis

Quotable Fridays: Dallas Willard on reading the Bible in a Year

March 2, 2012

“It is better in one year to have ten good verses transferred into the substance of our lives than to have every word of the Bible flash before our eyes.”

~Dallas Willard, Hearing God, 163

The Big Story, or Why I love my Wednesday Nights!

March 1, 2012

I don’t know how you celebrated your Leap Day, but it cannot have stacked up to what I did.

 

I lead our Wednesday Night family ministry at my church and it’s nights like last night that make me absolutely love what I do.  The last Wednesday of every month we celebrate Familystuf… a chance for parents and kids to have a shared experience that will help them have conversations and memories that can last a life time.  And last night we celebrated why we do what we do.

I asked Pastor Todd to help us celebrate Big Story Night.  Big Story Night is when we clearly talk about the Gospel.  Almost more importantly, its an opportunity for parents to have that conversation with their kids.  It’s the most important conversation you can have with your kids, and I want you to have it!  I’ve worked at summer camps and have had the wonderful opportunity to have that conversation with other people’s kids, and I love having any shade of it with my kids.  How important it is that you, as the parent, get to lead your child through it, even as you model in front of them.  Amazing.

And last night was that night.  Its my prayer that all the things God wanted us to do was done, and that the story is out and that it will be loved!  Todd did a wonderful job using the images of a tree, a closed gate, a cross, and an opened gate to tell the story in a way that could connect with the kids and also with the parents.  I hope that in everything we do, the Story comes out. I hope that last night, homes were buzzing with questions and with parents engaging their kids.

How snake charming works…

February 29, 2012

You know, just in case you want to try it at home…

What Pinterest means to me…

February 28, 2012

 

I was reluctant to start Pinterest. I didn’t get it. To me it was like creating a large to-do list that I wasn’t sure was ever going to get done. If that was even the goal, to get these things done.

 

I understand what it means find inspiration, to glean ideas from others or from nature to figure out what I was going to do. I didn’t look at Pinterest like this. I don’t know that I do yet. Instead I’m finding it more to be as I first saw it: a place to make to-do lists that I’m not sure are even meant to get done.

 

What is Pinterest? It’s my new place to hoard things. You hoard things that you found useful once and you’re just not sure what you’re going to do with anymore, but why get rid of it? It’s not taking up that much space. I can get around to fixing it. I’ll find a use for it. Maybe someone else could use it and I’ll just hold onto it until they need it. This is Pinterest.

Happy Birthday, Victor Hugo!

February 27, 2012

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“Certain thoughts are prayers. There are moments when, whatever be the attitude of the body, the soul is on its knees.”
― Victor Hugo

I was in 8th grade when I first opened Les Misérables. It was a huge book, and by the time I had finished all 1,064 pages the covers were tattered and the pages worn down. It was the longest book I had ever read, and would remain that until I went to seminary.

It changed my life. Hugo was a master at his craft and his characters, the timeless story, invaded my soul and I found it had effected me. I no longer looked for love, I looked for grace. I no longer looked to run away as much as I looked to be changed. It became my biblical companion, giving me the eyes to see what I had thought I knew. God used this book as many have said Pilgrims’s Progress had been used.

I read this book once a year until last year. I knew Jean Valjean better Han I knew myself. I saw the Bishop of Digny and saw a model, however fictional, of how to live and breath as an ambassador in an empire. I saw Javier, and saw myself as I really was.

I still have my original copy, it’s in two pieces. Heather got me a new copy when Claire was born. It was the first story I read to Claire as I would feed her. (I personally think its why she had the most amazing vocabulary for a one year old.).

His birthday was yesterday, and I remembered him as the influence he was to me, maybe as much as Lewis.

Who are the people in your life that have influenced you? Have you taken the time to thank them, to honor them?

Lent has been Rick Rolled

February 24, 2012

Are you a Christian today? Or when? or a New Definition for Lent

February 23, 2012

I hang out with all kinds of people.  Some I choose, some they choose, but I’m thrown into several varied situations everyday.  I’m always amazed how topics, comments, even language changes when they eventually find out that I’m an ordained pastor.  Its’ not that I keep it a secret, I just enjoy the freedom of watching others be open and honest with me about who they are and what concerns them.

Holidays make things interesting.  Well, I should rephrase: Holidays that are Christian and overtly religious make things interesting.  Add Ash Wednesday/Lent to the whole thing.  I can tell automatically who you are by what you call Shrove Tuesday, by what you eat on that day, and by whether or not you call it “a Catholic thing”.

What I really find interesting is the shift in moods that occurs when Lent come around.  Voices take a softer edge as they talk about what they’re giving up.  They want others to know what they’re giving up.  Things get hushed as it’s revealed, and there’s a sigh and an “I understand”.  It’s almost a time of confession because they are giving up something they know they indulge in.  It becomes a sacred moment… but the reasons seem to be mostly for health.  What’s given up is fast food, or chocolate, or soda.  All good things to give up if its what you struggle with, but do these things get to the heart of the matter?

I love the prayer I posted yesterday because it gets to a deep truth: we need to keep eternity in our minds at all times, and not just as a fleeting moment brought on by the circumstances or places we find ourselves in.  To look for Christ and in His goodness only once a week robs Him of His true identity as Sovereign; to only look for God when we need a hand is to rob ourselves of he joy of getting to know the One who Creates and Redeems.  It really calls us to question who we are.  We cannot claim to live in a Kingdom with a King only when it is convenient or when we are aware.  We could never do it in our day-to-day nationalities, so how can we think we can do it in our faith?

Instead, let me redefine, or at least give a new look at Lent.  Lent is 40 days to prepare us to carry our cross the other 325 days.  Lent should be a time of garnering new habits so that we can be better servants of God and of each other.  It just started, so no fear about getting it wrong.  Lent should be a time for us to gather in community to support each other in our weakness, and to learn about each other so we can help and pray for each other the other 325 days of the year.

So in the hushed talk between cubicles about Lenten activities with your coworkers, or maybe it comes up over the fence with your neighbor, see these conversations as they are: a sacred dialogue where your friend/coworker/relative is sharing their weakness with you.  Support them, help them, pray for them.  And check back.

Even if you don’t think they’re taking this season as seriously as you do, show them by your care how seriously you take them.

A Prayer for Ash Wednesday

February 22, 2012

Lord of Heaven,

Thy goodness is inexpressible and inconceivable.

In the works of creation thou art almighty,

In the dispensations of providence all-wise,

In the gospel of grace all love,

And in thy Son thou hast provided for

our deliverance from the effects of sin,

the justification of our persons,

the sanctification of our natures,

the perseverance of our souls in the path of life.

Though exposed to the terrors of thy law,

we have a refuge from the storm;

Though compelled to cry, ‘Unclean’,

we have a fountain for sin;

Though creature-cells of emptiness

we have a fullness accessible to all,

and incapable of reduction.

Grant us always to know that to walk with Jesus

makes other interests a shadow and a dream.

Keep us from intermittent attention

to eternal things;

Save us from the delusion of those

who fail to go far in religion,

who are concerned but not converted,

who have another heart but not a new one,

who have light, zeal, confidence, but not Christ.

Let us judge our Christianity,

not only by our dependence upon Jesus,

but by our love to him,

our conformity to him,

our knowledge of him.

Give us a religion that is both real

and progressive,

that holds on its way and grows stronger,

that lives and works in the Spirit,

that profits by every correction,

and is injured by no carnal indulgence.

~

    Fourth day morning: True Christianity

, The Valley of Vision

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